tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1261315018538317662.post204232633641569041..comments2023-07-15T03:45:36.822-07:00Comments on Surrender: Out of placeConinahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12267844904414770524noreply@blogger.comBlogger29125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1261315018538317662.post-82565211759000660032012-04-07T11:04:13.907-07:002012-04-07T11:04:13.907-07:00I'd love to know where you came up with those ...I'd love to know where you came up with those numbers. ;)<br /><br />Thanks so much, Lily, I appreciate it a lot. Your husband's pretty clever too.Coninahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12267844904414770524noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1261315018538317662.post-36125238524943419012012-04-06T22:43:41.234-07:002012-04-06T22:43:41.234-07:00I told my husband that I regularly feel intellectu...<em>I told my husband that I regularly feel intellectually dwarfed by the people whose blogs I follow. He raised his brow and said "You?" as if he found that difficult to believe.</em><br /><br />78% of the people whose blogs you feel that way about? Feel the same way about other people's blogs. The other 22%? <br /><br />Are assholes! :)<br /><br />My husband once said to me, "Everybody compares their insides to everybody else's outsides," that is, everybody else projects this glossy surface (or tries to) and what we experience of ourself is this tangled, unfinished mess, right? <br /><br />Just so you know? We see your glossy outside. Also? Our insides are also a tangled unfinished mess.Lilyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01732305580991933305noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1261315018538317662.post-57442798839710080112012-03-27T11:52:41.571-07:002012-03-27T11:52:41.571-07:00Has it been that long since I commented on your bl...Has it been that long since I commented on your blog? Must rectify. I appreciate the sentiment though. :)Coninahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12267844904414770524noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1261315018538317662.post-86504569828285636122012-03-27T11:51:49.805-07:002012-03-27T11:51:49.805-07:00Thanks for the encouragement, lil. :)Thanks for the encouragement, lil. :)Coninahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12267844904414770524noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1261315018538317662.post-49180392866155766812012-03-27T11:51:28.294-07:002012-03-27T11:51:28.294-07:00I remember things like that too, believe it or not...I remember things like that too, believe it or not.. although it was a bit longer ago for me.Coninahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12267844904414770524noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1261315018538317662.post-12066430911652955682012-03-26T16:33:17.818-07:002012-03-26T16:33:17.818-07:00P.S the last comment you left on my blog was two w...P.S the last comment you left on my blog was two words long. And it was by far one of the very best.Stormhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12613795542678253943noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1261315018538317662.post-71847773068557927032012-03-26T15:49:17.318-07:002012-03-26T15:49:17.318-07:00For what it's worth, the only comments I ever ...For what it's worth, the only comments I ever had that I thought were a waste of my time were spam lol. <br /><br />And I have always enjoyed your comments.<br /><br />You write well, your stories are hot, and your marriage is happy. Nothing wrong with sharing that!Stormhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12613795542678253943noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1261315018538317662.post-32135294940348056792012-03-14T18:59:41.279-07:002012-03-14T18:59:41.279-07:00Your, "Hey, duhhhhh," reminds me of how ...Your, "Hey, duhhhhh," reminds me of how not too long ago I still had dial-up, and I would be at a discussion board where you had to click on each comment individually to read them, and I'd click, and wait and wait and wait, maybe two or three minutes just for the post to open, and I'd find an "ITA!!!"Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1261315018538317662.post-65955655343046238352012-03-14T13:57:02.206-07:002012-03-14T13:57:02.206-07:00Happy-high is a far, far better place to settle th...Happy-high is a far, far better place to settle than happy-medium. :)Coninahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12267844904414770524noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1261315018538317662.post-162963053374184672012-03-14T13:56:17.394-07:002012-03-14T13:56:17.394-07:00Isn't it nice that we can gain inspiration fro...Isn't it nice that we can gain inspiration from actual sex acts that other people have done?<br /><br />I mean, not just porn actors.Coninahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12267844904414770524noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1261315018538317662.post-79974730484006479972012-03-14T12:20:52.669-07:002012-03-14T12:20:52.669-07:00So, your wild sex, my random musings, muttering, a...So, your wild sex, my random musings, muttering, and occasional DRAMA with little to no well described sexy time fun, combined make almost a whole subbie blog, right? :P<br /><br />If nothing else, it's nice to be able to read the happy marriage subtext, gives me hope that eventually we'll settle down somewhere happy-medium like in our life :)girlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03388884748004763892noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1261315018538317662.post-53478301605482613092012-03-14T04:00:00.389-07:002012-03-14T04:00:00.389-07:00If you didn't blog about your hot sex life whe...If you didn't blog about your hot sex life where would I get inspiration from?faerie wingshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09749617812384896845noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1261315018538317662.post-13100620998261692152012-03-13T19:20:59.391-07:002012-03-13T19:20:59.391-07:00Well, new to me, I mean.Well, new to me, I mean.Coninahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12267844904414770524noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1261315018538317662.post-37600606452973172702012-03-13T19:20:42.714-07:002012-03-13T19:20:42.714-07:00My pleasure! I love finding good new blogs, like y...My pleasure! I love finding good new blogs, like yours, too. :)Coninahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12267844904414770524noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1261315018538317662.post-20382113297667057852012-03-13T12:17:59.855-07:002012-03-13T12:17:59.855-07:00I love finding blogs of other happily married coup...I love finding blogs of other happily married couples who happen to have this private wild side. Thank you for commenting on my blog, leading me to yours! :)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1261315018538317662.post-27631662973788306472012-03-13T09:31:40.197-07:002012-03-13T09:31:40.197-07:00It's okay if you tell me I'm being silly. ...It's okay if you tell me I'm being silly. :) I worried over even posting this, because it seems like I'm begging for attention - "Tell me I'm good enough!" - but that's not really what it was about, and so I forged onward. <br /><br />I read your comment just as I woke up, and it gave me smiles and that warm fuzzy feeling you get from good companionship. So, thanks. I've got more happy sex posts coming, and a rant or two. ;)Coninahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12267844904414770524noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1261315018538317662.post-32418638747639216472012-03-13T09:26:22.926-07:002012-03-13T09:26:22.926-07:00I would never stop blogging, not permanently, anyw...I would never stop blogging, not permanently, anyway. <br /><br />"You can check out any time you like, but you can never leave," huh? ;)Coninahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12267844904414770524noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1261315018538317662.post-85976328683429160942012-03-13T06:39:59.118-07:002012-03-13T06:39:59.118-07:00Thanks! I've started thinking of you as my on...Thanks! I've started thinking of you as my one blog friend, so I was worried when I saw this. Not that you can't share non-sex personal stuff - you can, but that you might think you can leave...<br /><br />I know, I know, paranoid much?Kitty the Submissive Wifehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00185859722963938064noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1261315018538317662.post-620392748689128422012-03-12T23:04:00.917-07:002012-03-12T23:04:00.917-07:00Is it ok if I tell you that you're being silly...Is it ok if I tell you that you're being silly? I don't really feel like we know each other well enough, but damn, you're being silly.<br /><br />I love this blog! So much! I love that you post happy sex stories almost every day. Not just because they are DAMN hot (which they are) but because it is SO NICE to read a blog by a smart woman in a happy, loving relationship. The fact that you're sexually submissive is just the icing. <br /><br />I have a sneaking suspicion that *some* people who are into BDSM are also into dramatic relationships. Nothing wrong with that, necessarily, but I personally find drama stressful and like the low-drama relationships myself. And so it's great to read about yours.Feminist Subhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15691479287226518452noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1261315018538317662.post-84124756798440092662012-03-12T22:00:00.876-07:002012-03-12T22:00:00.876-07:00Great relationships - the reason we keep going, hu...Great relationships - the reason we keep going, huh?<br /><br />You're new, I'm new, we're all new 'round these parts. :) "New" doesn't mean a whole lot, except in a good way. Fresh blood keeps the world a turnin'! So many people start up a blog, write for a few months, and then just drop out of existence... <br /><br />Personally I'm delighted to have you around.Coninahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12267844904414770524noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1261315018538317662.post-72206683936125871372012-03-12T21:57:48.812-07:002012-03-12T21:57:48.812-07:00That actually means a lot to me. :)That actually means a lot to me. :)Coninahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12267844904414770524noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1261315018538317662.post-52461215302084443312012-03-12T21:57:33.288-07:002012-03-12T21:57:33.288-07:00Glad to hear it - and ditto for you!Glad to hear it - and ditto for you!Coninahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12267844904414770524noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1261315018538317662.post-82026208272575698732012-03-12T21:57:04.905-07:002012-03-12T21:57:04.905-07:00I never intended to stop, never fear. :) I just fe...I never intended to stop, never fear. :) I just felt the need to explain why I withdraw and read silently so often. The flood of insightful comments many people get leaves me breathless. I'm not a fan of crowds, or saying what's already been said.<br /><br />I really appreciate your take on this, though. It only occurred to me after I posted it that other people may feel the same way - and what's to come of everyone clamming up? Not much at all, huh?Coninahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12267844904414770524noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1261315018538317662.post-11757946552203965802012-03-12T21:54:34.321-07:002012-03-12T21:54:34.321-07:00Thanks for the vote of confidence. :)Thanks for the vote of confidence. :)Coninahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12267844904414770524noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1261315018538317662.post-5407603620185415592012-03-12T20:46:59.061-07:002012-03-12T20:46:59.061-07:00PS - I hardly ever have drama either, unless I mak...PS - I hardly ever have drama either, unless I make it. Our relationship is good, even great. But we are trying to figure out the M/s which is new, so I appreciate when you so easily summarize my questions. So, don't feel out of place... I like you here, but of course, I am new, so what do I know?Kitty the Submissive Wifehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00185859722963938064noreply@blogger.com